Jesse, my heart goes out to you. My second wife was abused by her alcoholic step father from the age of 11 until she left the home as a teenager. So were her sisters and brothers. She eventually died due to alcohol abuse. As you are aware this behavior effects more than the victim. Our daughter is still grappling with her mother' s abuse and early death. If you are interested I wrote about it in my memoir, "The Moose's Children: A Memoir of Betrayal, Death, and Survival." It is available through Amazon. Thank you for your courage and sharing.